Love sick? Today I want to write about love. Yes, advising those few who actually reads my blog haha. Well, yesterday night, on MSN I had to comfort a friend who is EMOing on love. I am not an expert in love but I can pinpoint out a few advices to take into consideration, don't take my word for it, its just an opinion!!

1) THE CONFESSION. Firstly, if you like that person go confess. It doesn't matter if your a guy or girl or that person is your best friend. It is not the end of the world if your love is turn down, life continues. If he turn you down, say thank you because you will find a better person than him in the future. If you don't take action, your life is going to be miserable and gloomy everyday.

2) MEMORY GAME. Try to forget that person by keeping yourself busy. Find games to play, books to read or go work. The less you meet the better and soon you can't even remember him/her very well. Mixing with others opens new opportunity to have a relationship with others. This I can assure because I learn it in Interpersonal Communication XD.

3) THE BREAKUP!! So you got dumped. Thank God because that person is not worth it. Find friends who tells you the truth and not for comfort. If you are close to your parents, ask them to lend their ears. Never ever begged for the relationship again.

4) JUST MAYBE. Maybe he/she likes me? If you are unsure ask your friends who wont spread the word. Don't ever assume and act as if your dating that person. Don't live in your own dream and when that person finds another, you say he/she is cheating. If still unsure, try some test, like ask that person to do something just for you and see his responds.

5) FOOL IN LOVE. Yea I know someone who fall in love easily. Last week say like AAA then next week like BBB. You are going to have depression a lot but it doesn't last. Try knowing that person even more before you say you are in love.

6) GREEN EYE. Your obssessed, you can't stop thinking about that person yet he/she don't even realize your feelings. Then for no reason you want to possess him/her and gets jealous if he/she spends more time with others. Look at it this way, do you want to POSSESS that person? Even in a relationship, it should be mutual not possessive. How will others look at you when you behave like that? Unless your skin is thick enough to not notice the awkwardness, you need therapy.

7) LOVE. If you have a partner, please don't be so lovey dovey in front of other singles or other people. If you want to play touch touch go get a room. Normal kiss is okay but not excessive, your not making love. Enjoy it while it last because love is bitter sweet. First love is most exciting but also leaves the deepest wound.

Well I hope these 7 tips helps. Personally, I feel that a few of them works for me and a few of my friends while others are just what I think. So, if things don't work out and these 7 tips don't apply, dude you need professional help, may I introduce you to Mrs. Singh, she is a psychologist/sociologist/psychiatrist?? ALL THE BEST TO THOSE CUPID'S TARGETS.


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